what do if your blamed for everything
Don't worry too much about it; those kind of things; usually what goes around comes around. Stand firm but do not fight or even talk back. If you need to state your case do it quietly and politely. The Bible says when you have done all that you can do;;; then just stand. And I mean to literally stand on your own two feet. Not in a mean or threatening way; but in a way that says "Jesus is beside me and all around me."
The Bible says " a soft answer turns away wrath" ;;; and it really does.