Posted by Smartypntz8 11 months ago In:

family & relationships

Me and my bff like the same guy!!

So before i had a boyfriend I used to like this guy, Mark but then i got a boyfriend and after We broke up I started liking Mark again but I didnt tell my bff first and it turns out she likes him ... She got to tell me first before I got to tell her. So now I am really confused I dont know what to do! But honestly I think he likes me he barley talks to my bff and he talks to me always.. Idk what to do and she REALLY REALLY REALLY likes him and so do I and the thing is she asked him if he liked her more than a friend he said no.. IDK WHAT TO DO SOMEBODY PLS HELP ME!! P.S. She would kick my ass if she found out (not legit) she would get mad.. And sad cos she even CRIES over this guy! Im geeting scared we have never ever been in a fight since we met (5 years ago) so somebody pls help me!!!

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OronD Answered:

I hope you are an open person so I won't need to sugarcoat my words: She told you first that she likes Mark. When she told you she didn't think you like him too. She trusted you and openred her heart to you. It won't be fair to compete with her (on Mark). Be generous, hide your feelings (to Mark) and free the way for her. You only like Mark, not more (if you loved him you would have another guy as your boyfriend), not worth fighting with your best-girl-friend over him (regardless whom he prefers).