My bf and I have been living together for 6 mths ...

My bf and I have been living together for 6 mths. I find that when he get interested in something he is almost obsessed. It feels like he has shut me out when he is involved with it. I confronted him with this and he said he is 57 years old and this is who he is. that this is him. How do I handle this? Do I just accept it? I am very in love with this man.

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You fell in love with the wrong man.  He has low EQ and is more concentrated in himself than in any other one else.  However, you are in love and you won't change him (he is not the type that will change..... and it is NOT because he is 57).... and at your ages it is not easy to find true love, so accept him as he is (no use fighting and getting mad).  It won't be easy (simply because you are made from different materials) but the other option (fighting back or giving up and leave him) are even worse. 

Love is the battery of life....

MA,-----  you know who, is posting under her AKA again. lets hope she don'y start telling people on here what they can or cannot post.

sometimes love just can't work out and this can not work out

a person should be as enthusiastic and dangerous as Legolas

You stated that you love him.  There is the answer.  Love will tolerate these little quirks. 

I would ask nicely this person addressing Syvil, to please do not put your rants on answeres addressing my question, It is serious to me. Thank you.

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