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I learned about my husband's affair through his phone text by chance about 10 months ago. I told my husband that i would not forgive him unless he is honest. My husband told me that the affair started ...

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This problem seems to be a common one for so many people. It was a mistake for you to continue living with this man all these years of suspecting his betrayal. What that has done is enabled him to continue with his affair outside his marriage. You can see a therapist if you want to stay with him, but I don't think I would stay. It seems to me as if you've wasted too much time on this cowardly liar, than he deserves.