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Discuss LadyE's answer to: I could not believe my husband's answer about his affair

I learned about my husband's affair through his phone text by chance about 10 months ago. I told my husband that i would not forgive him unless he is honest. My husband told me that the affair started ...

LadyE Answered:

If your husband has been seeing this woman be it 5 or 10 years, there must be a bond of some kind between them. He is not going to stop seeing her that easily.

Don't force him to say what you want to hear as it will be only a lie. You must decide what you are going to do. Seek a mental health counselor or therepist to help you along the way.