i'm apart of a verbally and sometimes physically abusive relationship, i moved 1500 miles to be with him 2 years ago and i feel it's time to leave him, things are getting worse not better and ive never been in this situation before nor have i broken up with someone before, what would be the easiest, safest, less painful way to break up with him. i'd feel like a coward if i just packed my things and left, ive tried over and over again to make things work and they haven't, he's controlling over everything, my medications, he calls me fat and ugly all of the time and even threaten abuse against my 8lb pet and myself. i do love my boyfriend but i feel unsafe around him, and i feel as if i'm putting my pet in danger as well in new york state things are totally different.. could you please give me good advice. like step by step advice, i'm in desprete need.
I have a ticket to leave in 2 weeks, i need a less cowardly way out, i feel horrible leaving him but i can no longer deal with the abuse, he keeps saying he'll change and it never happens. my option is to go home 1500 miles away to be with my loved ones. I've been crying all night trying to figure out what would be the least painful way for both of us to end things. he keeps saying he doesnt want to be with me but refuses to end things. This is my first time ever ending a relationship. PLEASE help me, i need it as soon as possible.