I am a general failure and I can't figure out why although i try very hard. I look very good, have pleasant personality but I can not get a boyfriend (only casual sex if i want to). I am quite ...
There's an old saying that goes like this,
"Why buy a cow when milk is so cheap" Firstoff Sex should never be casual, true intimacy comes when two people care deeply for each other and want to be together.
No one has plugged your luck but you. Look for a job that you would like while your still working. Send out resume's to companies that you know you would care to work for.
This happens to be a terrible time for company's to hire it's partially due to the economy that you don't have the job you like. Many talented folks are doing menial jobs to get along.
Hang in there and do whatever you can to keep your spirits up and certainly think more of yourself than giving your body to someone without sincerity and committment!