What is the answer to an adult male child who is verbally and emotionally abusive to his senior mother who now finds himself powerful enough to steal from her a lot of money and the final straw which broke the camel's back and after years of the other abuse finally physically harmed his mother on more than one occasion by coming home drunk while she was babysitting? I can never find any books about adult children abusing their adult parents unless it leads to sexual abuse and in this case no sexual abuse had taken place. However, the emotional, verbal abuse has been going on since he was a small child. The financial abuse started as a teenager and carried over into adulthood. The physical abuse started most recently in the last 5-6 years which I will not tolerate any longer. This has led up to many more problems and we have now been estranged for well over 3 years and I have not seen my granddaughter in over 3 years. He has never been emotionally or verbally abused, nor physically abused. We have been to psychiatrists, he has been on medications, but he swears he's just perfectly fine and the rest of the world is messed up - but DEFINITELY NOT HIM! Has anyone read or heard of any books, articles, etc., support groups, available for adults who have grown children who are totally out of control and have been for quite some time but seems as if there is no hope in sight. Would love to hear some opinions about this.