Why can’t I believe my best friend is bi curious?

my best friend tells me she is bi curious but I don’t believe it because she had a lot of crushes on men never women. I am bi sexual had a crush on her since high school but moving on. Now she tells me she has unsure feelings for me and might be bi curious. I don’t believe it….I think she just saying that just for attention and that she doesn’t want me to move on from her. she knows I liked her in high school, she is fine with it. she told me her bi curoius could be just evny to other girls but she just not sure about that i think it is just envy...what you think?

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I think the world is full of bi curious people (men and women) so I would believe your friend when she tells you that. One sure way for you to find out (since you are bisexual) is that if you're attracted to her is to ask her for a date and see what happens. You'll know what to do from there.

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There  is many  people  who are Bi-sexual  and  it  does  not  mean the  end  of  the world,  Both males and  females  experiment  in their  teen  years having  Bi-sexual  relationships  with  the members  of the  same  sex ,  I had  a  Bi-sexual  relationship I am  now  Age 41 ,  And  I   am strictly straight into women ,  I  think  these  are phases  young people go through , It's  better than  her  getting pregnant And  having  babies ,   If  she  wants  to experiment sexually  with  another  female , That  should  be her  deal  , She  may  some day  down the road  look at  this  situation  , And say  Ewwww  how could have  I ,  She  is  probably  going  through mixed emotions  too , On  what  her  sexuality   really  is than  again  none  of  us  can do  anthing  life is life  I just  hope she   practices  safe sex  with both  males  and  females ,  You  should  talk to her  about it that  will  let  her  know  that  has  a  friend   that you  care

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SHE is just playing you because she can.  Your best defence is not to fall into that trap.  She is not saying that she cares for you;  she is only leading you on, its a game to her.  Let it go.  You can find a loving person, who cares for you not just a game.  You have grown up, not in school any more, move on with  your life there is a big world waiting.

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