I have a 3 and a Half year old daugther. Since last year I have started getting problems with my daugter, but I could handle it. But now when you disaple her no matter the punishment she turns around ...
Her pediatrician can evaluate her for possible ADD/ADHD, but it's difficult at 3 yrs old. Two other avenues to try are 1 ) Enroll her into a preschool/Head Start program. Sometimes the new people, and structure help with discipline problems. 2) Try joining a parenting support group. Well run groups have all kinds of suggestions and resources. Your pediatrician may be able to help you in finding both of these options. Good Luck!