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I am 27 Female, Not much intrested in sex. When my ...

I am 27 Female, Not much intrested in sex. When my husband do sex with me.. i don't get any feelings. We are married 5 years ago? We have a 2 years baby girl. What is my problem.. ? I even don't have any other relationships or any sex feelings on any other? Is it a problem? It can be cured? I am not at all interested in going to any hospital on this reason. Can u suggest any medicines or any self treatment for me...

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Terrance Hall
Terrance Hall Answered:

This is called Sexual Anhedonia (little pleasure from sex).  Usually during orgasm the brain emits huge doses of serotonin and the kidneys release huge overloads of epinephrine, in a carefully timed sequence that puts the pleasure centers of the brain into overdrive.

Age can play a part, as can obesity.

The first thing to do is consult with a neuropsychologist to see why you get so little pleasure from life's most potently pleasurable experience.

Quite often a suppressed traumatic memory can induce sexual anhedonia, particularly childhood sexual abuse or rape.  Conversely your partner might be impotent or there may be problems with your relationship.

It is imperative to know that the past is over and that you are in a completely different situation now where it is perfectly all right to enjoy life's most potent pleasure.  You are with someone you love and trust now.  There is no reason not to enjoy sex.

I hope that helps.

Be as fearless as a Rodeo Clown.
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OronD
OronD Answered:

Terrance Hall gave you an excellent answer.  I would like to add:
1.   Sorry to ask you several questions: 
      *  Was it always like that ? 
      *  Did you enjoy ggod sex anytime before (with
          other partners ?)
      *  Do you love your husband ?  Do you have good 
          close loving relations with him ? 
      *  Do you have long for-play ?
2.  Please see a sexologist (preferably, go with you husband). 
3.  The good news:  It is curable (in 99.9% of all cases).

Love is the battery of life....
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yssubramanyam
yssubramanyam Answered:

the extreme sexual  pleasure is preoccupied by you through some means like books, or through friends. hence you may not be getting pleasure up to your imagination level. just involve in coital act with full exchange of biological demands and let things go and keep hinting your feelings, have total contact, merge heart and soul..you will see the result and find good new dimensions in sex.

love smiling faces, or make others to smile at you. it is the secret of happiness in life.
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