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i am 19(female) ,my aggressive behavior is bothering me a lot ... towards my parents and at home.. the smallest argument that happens or a comment that is being passed,in a fraction of second i get ...

GOD is not going to punish you as long as  you are trying to improve yourself.

I do not know the source of your anger. The fact that you explode indicates that there is much anger within you that you have not dealt with.

Without belaboring things that I know little of, I would suggest one of two things:

  1. Get yourself into counseling ASAP.
  2. Move out.

Doing both is acceptable.


I wish you well in your pursuit of maturity.

Gratitude as a discipline involves a conscious choice.....* Victims of circumstance owe it to fate. Victims of choice owe it to themselves.*One of the widest gaps in human experience is the gap between what we say we want to be and our willingness to discipline ourselves to get there.
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samram Thinks this answer is Helpful:

trying my best to control it .... i see some changes in me Smile.

thank you guys

Ol' Yeddar

You are welcome, smaram.

The first step in dealing with any problem is recognizing that. You have done that. Talking about it with another is also a needed step. And you are doing that.


Good luck!

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