Member Since December 10, 2009 , From winston-salem NC, United States
"Life is what you make it! It takes a lot of hard work and perseverance to be successful, but is rewarding". However good or bad your situation is, it will change! Remember: God does not promise us another day, so no matter how you feel, GET UP! DRESS UP! AND SHOW UP!
About BabsNC:

Small business owner (computer graphics & signs of all kinds); hard worker; kind, generous, empathetic, sense of humour and sharp witted.  Greatly independent, outspoken and self-sufficient.  Graduated from both business college and the School of "Hard Knocks".  Worked as legal & administrative secretary in government, sold real estate, was a law assistant, a purchasing agent, etc. then purchased a sign business.  Have 2 grown sons and 7 grandchildren. I try to learn something new every day and knowledge. Am an avid reader. Love music of all kinds. Lean toward Conservatism.  Am sympathetic to others' plights and have good common sense advice to offer.


Recent Activity by BabsNC

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Answered: My husband has had 2 affairs now and both ...

Did your husband ASK for your forgiveness? Or is he acting like he did nothing wrong? How did you find out about the affairs and how long had each one been going on behind your back? Do you have ...

Answered: My wife talk on the phone to and old boyfriend ...

I think you would have a good case of "Alienation of Affections" against the Pastor. He broke up your marriage. It doesn't matter if you live in a No Fault Divorce State. One case has nothing to do ...

Answered: Me and my wife been fighting over the small ...

I don't understand what your problem is! If you are already married (You called her "your wife"); then why is she asking you "Let's get married"????? That does not make any sense. You two need to ...

Answered: Okay so I am married and i have not been with ...

First you need to get a divorce. Then the Judge should have no problem signing your petition to go back to your maiden name. Why did you think you were already divorced when you never initiated it ...

Answered: Thanks yr reply reg my husband's inability to ...

Can you find out what doctor he went to, make an apptmt, and go there yourself to discuss your husband's problem with the doctor? IT ABSOLUTELY IS NOT NORMAL for a man not to engage in sexual ...

Answered: Husband unable to consummate marriage

What type of courtship did you have with him prior to marriage? Did you hug and kiss passionately after you fell in love??? Did you "fall in love" with him or just marry him because he asked you to ...

Answered: In state of pennsylvania, does it matter if ...

If it doesn't matter to you, then the Dept. of Motor Vehicles doesn't care and neither does anyone else. However, as already pointed out, your husband needs to have a Will designating that the ...

Answered: Life after an affair....

Stop hanging out at bars! Especially that one. Don't you have other interests in your life besides bar-hopping? Focus on making your marriage stronger by seeking some new interests: the theatre ...

Answered: Im 20 year old,i had love a guy near 10 months ...

You're young and you have not even experienced life yet. Don't settle for this LOSER. Don't go back to dating him. Stay "strict" (as you say) and FIRM. Do this for yourself and for YOUR HAPPINESS ...

Answered: I'm getting a divorce and i want to have my ...

Your name change would be a separate legal issue from your divorce. One has nothing to do with the other. You can go on-line to your county's website and see if they have a "Change of Name Petition ...

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Anasuya says:
"Thanks BabsNC you have correctly addressed my problem , request guidance in future course--Anasuya"
~Jada~ says:
"Happy 4th of July!"
~Jada~ says:
"Hi Bobby! Merry Christmas & Happy New Year! ~jada~ 2010"
~Jada~ says:
"Hi Bobby... I'm enjoying your answers and smiling at your wit & southern charm. You've heard me say it before... BabNC calls it like she sees it, and tells it as it is. Merry Christmas! ~Jada~"
jd says:
"BabsNC. Your posted statements to Marilyn58 was on target. I appreciated reading what you had to offer. Kudos to you!"
lawbug says:
"You are very sharp young lady and your imput is very important to all on yedda."
~Jada~ says:
"Hey Babs... Once again, welcome to Yedda Ms. Spunky lol. I enjoy reading your comments so keep giving good advice! I'm sure we'll be seeing much of you here at Yedda. Welcome to the pack."
Angel says:
"BabsNC Girl put them young people in their place. Teach them a thing or two to contemplate."