Member Since February 14, 2009 , From Bay Shore NY, United States
Quote #1. Just remember, if the grass always seems greener on the other side...it's probably because there is more manure there. Quote #2. So often times it happens, that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key. Quote #3. Just remember this my firends, when you look up in the sky, you can see the stars and still not see the light.
About IM5688:

Down to earth, logical, but travel to the beat of a different drummer. I usually see things very different than most. Am very creative, also can be stubborn. I am a great judge of character, (just ask my 3 ex-wives,) but I do believe in the power of love. I live in New York, USA and I am once again happily married, this time to my true Chinese soulmate, Chao Song.


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Answered: Ive been trying to work at an abusive ...

Unless this man is actively in counseling or on medication, you and your child are not safe. Who knows what what will trigger a angry, physical outburst. My suggestion to you is to put as many miles ...

Answered: I am inlove with a man who use to be on crack ...

Why would you be in love with a man that: 1. is an addict. 2. Has abused you physically and mentally. 3. Has probably stolen from you or someone you know. 4. You will never be able to trust and 5. you ...

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Vaishali, While I agree, you should both seek counseling to help mend your marriage, I do not believe this man will continue to be faithful to you. If he has been communicating and lying to 143 other ...

Answered: I'm currently dating and having an affair with ...

Anything that starts off wrong, can never be right. You know what you are doing and you, (and him,) are allowing it to continue. You both need to come to your senses, break off ties with each other ...

Answered: We live in Jaco,Costa Rica she is Nicaragua I am ...

I recently married a Chinese lady. It took me almost 1 year to bring her to the USA. I suggest that you speak to an attorney that specializes in Immigration. He will guide you through the process to ...

Answered: What can I do If I feel like I'm on the edge of ...

Christopher, I agree with the answer that "girl" gave you. The fact that you recognize that you have a problem is the first step. Talking to a professional is the answer because you need to know why ...

Asked: English Classes, Long Island, NY

I live in the Suffolk County area of Long Island, NY. I married a Chinese lady who is now with me in the U.S. I would like to know if anyone knows of any Chinese to English classes in my area.
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Answered: My dad is in critical financial situation. he ...

My first thought is that you need to take care of your father. If you can take care of him and at the same time, work towards your Masters Degree, this would be great. My feeling is that, your father ...

Answered: Confusion over Behavior

Patti, You were not set-up to fail. In fact, you did exactly as mother had asked you to do. While there is a definate lack of communication in this instance, I don't think mother meant any harm. It ...

Answered: I am 30 years old woman, who is happily engaged ...

Love is a two way street. From what you write, I get the impression that you may love him, and he may love you, but you both are not in love with each other. I say this because, you do not seem to ...

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auntjoan says:
"Fantastic answer to Mona, IM5688. You give good advice and wisdom, written well. Nice to meet you!"
~Jada~ says:
"Happy 4th of July, Lou!"
Norton says:
"Your answer to Jenny was excellent, as well as your comment to her. I am looking forward to reading your book. "
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"IM5688, your answers are sensible and creative. I enjoy reading you."
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"Hi Lou...welcome to Yedda aka Aol Answers... better late than never, right? I am enjoying reading your answers as well. See ya posting... ~Jada~"
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